Couples Therapy

Things just aren’t what they used to be.

Do you remember when things used to be… EASIER?

It was EXCITING!

There was PASSION!

Nothing was impossible as long as you were together.

You wanted the same things.

You could talk about anything… and it felt so natural.

You had a deep connection.

But now, there’s this distance.

Remember when everything was so endearing about your partner? It doesn’t quite feel that way anymore, does it? When you look at them, it’s just not the same.

Remember that easy conversation? It is long gone… replaced with breakdowns, conflicts, and that abrasive chill.

Remember that quality time you couldn’t get enough of? When was the last time you had a “date night”? And when you do have that time, it often feels contrived… forced.

You’re drifting apart, and there’s no “repair” in sight…

Guarded in your own space…

Watching your relationship die a death of anger and indifference.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

True connection in relationships stems from deeply knowing your partner: what made them, how they’ve learned to attach to partners, and their thoughts and feelings about their attachment behavior.

You can be with someone with whom you share a history without being who you are. The key to a fresh start is seeing your partner differently.

To create a new connection, you’ll need to heal from past wounds and feel safe in your current relationship. This is possible when you rebuild and find each other with empathy. The space between you can be held FOR each other, where your differences are respected rather than used against each other.

This project requires maturity and effective communication. That’ll take time and practice, but I’m here to help you.

Together, we will work on the differences, the distance, the anger, the despair, the disengagement, and the hurt. We will rebuild connection, talk through the pain, and restore the tenderness and respect.

And if you decide not to return to the relationship, I can help you separate with mutual dignity and respect. There are ways to do this while honoring what is in your heart and mind.

Saving your relationship is a risk worth taking.

All relationships face challenges. That you’re here shows you’re wise enough to seek the support you need to overcome this hurdle. That you’ve made it to this page indicates that you want things to get better.

It’ll take work (it’s not like the movies), but you can do it, and I’m here to help.

You’ve built something together. Don’t you both deserve one more effort to strengthen the relationship to what it should be?

It’s time to create a new connection!

Let me help. Call me today and let’s schedule your free consultation: (832) 510-0373.